Here are a few experiences by swingers for you to read!
In the beginning of our swinging experience...
In the beginning of our swinging experience I was not as choosy about the partners we met with and had sex with, this was partly becuase I fide it hard to say no to my husband and I don't want to hurt other peoples feelings!
Also, in many cases both my husband and I were very attracted to the female of the couple and "put up with" the male, as he was not attractive for me, so we could have swinger couple sex!
The answer is that I need to be a little bit more assertive in the future and a little more choosy with the swinger couple so that if I don't like both the female AND the male I will say no even if this could upset my husband, as it is very important for everyone to be happy when having group sex!
When presented with the question, when out at dinner with another couple, "do you want to go back to their place?" I will find it difficult to say no if I am not interested without feeling that I am being mean.
Feeling left out of a swinger couple session...
My partner and I were at a club that we regularly frequent and my partner found this couple there and started to pay attention to the female. The Guy was also very much into his partner so they both began to "play" and left me to the side!
As I was getting no attention at all I felt completely left out, not really jealous, but felt a bit like a "spare prick at a wedding". I did speak to my partner later and he apologised and told me that he would not do this again if I was to be left out.
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